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Thursday, February 21, 2019
Sunday, February 3, 2019
Why Honoring your Parents is Mega Important v.02
This is going to be a long post, before, here is a keyword from Dr. Jordan B Peterson,
sorry I forgot,
Basically in his lecture in 2017 about Openness and Intelligence, he talked about how if a person sees the future as predictable it would became easier for him/her to invest in his/her future. And the opposite is true. So if a person wants to be hardworking he/she would achieve that state easier if he/she believed that the future is certain for him/her.
Now,
Have you ever experienced a serene and powerful lonely time in your parents' house when they are away? But when they got back home the house become so stressful you lost your previous drive to plan and execute?
Well that means your parents has managed to provide you with stability, good enough for you to see forward. However your parents can't feel that about their home, and you must understand, when you saw a serene and powerful house they saw bills, clients, customers, employees, or bosses that has their own problems, in order to maintain the family.
That house mean less of a solution to them than it is to you.
Ofcourse the logical solution would be to leave you alone to do your thing. Because you'd do so much more with the stability that they have achieved. but... deep down inside they might or may not trust you.
And it's the same everywhere, except in China the culture of honoring your parents is so prevalent and even over the top sometimes, the parents could be certain that their children would be less prioritized by the society if they become ungrateful.
What I'm saying is, yes your parents love you, and they love you unconditionally to a point.
But beyond that point, it's still business... cause they are human being that's still liable to problems and sufferings they have their own fear and negotiation standards.
And this blog is meant for your family to be honest or realistic about it. Your parents need profit from you as well.
Be a profitable person
On side note here's a formula for life achievements:
x1y1 + x2y2 + x3y3 + x4y4 + x5y5 + x6y6, etc.
x being the principal, or the spirit (you improve this by learning, enjoying, copying, creating)
y being the authors, or the humans (you improve this point by giving thanks to them)
x1 could be mathematics, x2 could be medicine, x3 could be accounting, x4 could be security
and all of the solutions you enjoy in life...
each segment could represent mathematics, medicine, accounting, security, etc. In other words all the solutions you've experienced.
In order to maximize your potential, you'd want to give thanks accordingly, like free trade each person or entities has different talents or specialities, but the rule of thumb is you'd achieve maximum advantage if you allocate 50:50 to the x:y.
I made this not out of science but out of intuition from my life (even now I have changed it to correct it). It might not be that good, but it's something, really.
sorry I forgot,
Basically in his lecture in 2017 about Openness and Intelligence, he talked about how if a person sees the future as predictable it would became easier for him/her to invest in his/her future. And the opposite is true. So if a person wants to be hardworking he/she would achieve that state easier if he/she believed that the future is certain for him/her.
Now,
Have you ever experienced a serene and powerful lonely time in your parents' house when they are away? But when they got back home the house become so stressful you lost your previous drive to plan and execute?
Well that means your parents has managed to provide you with stability, good enough for you to see forward. However your parents can't feel that about their home, and you must understand, when you saw a serene and powerful house they saw bills, clients, customers, employees, or bosses that has their own problems, in order to maintain the family.
That house mean less of a solution to them than it is to you.
Ofcourse the logical solution would be to leave you alone to do your thing. Because you'd do so much more with the stability that they have achieved. but... deep down inside they might or may not trust you.
And it's the same everywhere, except in China the culture of honoring your parents is so prevalent and even over the top sometimes, the parents could be certain that their children would be less prioritized by the society if they become ungrateful.
What I'm saying is, yes your parents love you, and they love you unconditionally to a point.
But beyond that point, it's still business... cause they are human being that's still liable to problems and sufferings they have their own fear and negotiation standards.
And this blog is meant for your family to be honest or realistic about it. Your parents need profit from you as well.
Be a profitable person
On side note here's a formula for life achievements:
x1y1 + x2y2 + x3y3 + x4y4 + x5y5 + x6y6, etc.
x being the principal, or the spirit (you improve this by learning, enjoying, copying, creating)
y being the authors, or the humans (you improve this point by giving thanks to them)
each segment could represent mathematics, medicine, accounting, security, etc. In other words all the solutions you've experienced.
In order to maximize your potential, you'd want to give thanks accordingly, like free trade each person or entities has different talents or specialities, but the rule of thumb is you'd achieve maximum advantage if you allocate 50:50 to the x:y.
I made this not out of science but out of intuition from my life (even now I have changed it to correct it). It might not be that good, but it's something, really.
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